When we met to co-develop this paper, we wanted to articulate and share the importance of gurrutu (relationship) as this is the foundation of our ways of working. We have intentionally created space to discuss, negotiate meaning and consolidate shared priorities in the work that we have done together and in the writing of this story. Therefore, we decided to write this paper as a collective we. With heartfelt acknowledgement of those who have been on the journey with us (including Yalmay Yunupinu, Djalinda Yunupiŋu, Andrea Kingston, Eve Millar, Lisa Walker, Sarah Rogers and many others), we write this as a set of reflections from Rarrtjiwuy, Claire and Fiona. We offer this story as an imperfect work in progress with the hope that it resonates with others seeking to create middle spaces together.